You have one cup. A cup of coffee. You want white tea. Until you drink your coffee or spill it out, and wash your cup, you can’t drink white tea.
A friend of mine has a family of five people. Five grown up people. All five without work currently.
It’s not like they can’t find a job. They just left their jobs where they didn’t like to work. Why? Because when they are still working at a job they don’t like, they won’t have time nor strength nor most importantly place in life for something new.
I wrote this in 2013 and now they work or study for what interests them 🙂 Happy end.